Sometimes celebrating victory is an expression of selfishness, when someone wins it is because someone loses therefore there is no triumph that is not built on the frustration of another what words more, words less what it means that celebrating the triumph is also ignoring the pain of others. Celebrating defeat instead is an act of generosity, it is an act of rebellion, against a society that has convinced us that we must be the first at any cost…….. Condemning ourselves in passing to the perverse anguish of surpassing ourselves all the time